The path to Gothheyrandism is open to everyone and is a personal choice and journey.
The first call of the gods is that of fealty to your own oaths. Your word is a sacred bond that you give to others, do not be fickle with it. You are not required to give your oath to any person or god, but when you do, you are bonded to your word.
The second call of the gods is that of loyalty to your kith and kin. Life is a precious thing and is measured in our finite allotment of time. Those who have given you a piece of their lives have spent a precious resource on you; more valuable than any monies or luxuries. Treat them with the respect and love they deserve.
The third call of the gods is for faith. You and all things in the universe were made by the gods and are the pleasure of the gods. They look to your interests and ask for little in return. Remember the gods and they will keep you in their hearts; keep them in your heart and they will provide their favour.
The final call of the gods is for wisdom. Do not cling to the texts or teachings of the gods as sacrosanct. The world changes, mankind changes, so do the opinions of the gods. (Though not their nature) Learn the philosophies and religions of the world, this pleases Ve and his kin. Learn the sciences and mathematics of the world, this pleases Villi and his kin. Learn to be creative and imaginative, for this is the gift of the All-father.
Is there an initiation or ritual to begin?
No, there is no special rite or requirement to become Gothheyrandi. Most Gothheyrandi begin their journey by choosing a personal Goth. This will be the Goth who you feel most kinship with and who may have chosen you to hear their call. This relationship is not unlike any other relationship, it does not have to be rushed. Kinship with one of the gods is not taken lightly, but you should not feel that you are bound to a single Goth from the start.
The most important thing to remember is this: make no oaths to your personal Goth in the beginning. Oaths are serious affairs and should not be taken lightly. The gods understand that you may be unsure or even confused and there are none who would hold it against you should you decide on another to be your patron.
If you belong to a kinship, you can find a Gothkallari or a Gothjonn who can assist you in making this important choice. However, it is important to remember that the choice is a personal one and should not be made by anyone but you.
How can I begin my journey with the gods?
To have heard the call of the gods is all that is needed to begin your journey. But what is the call?
This differs among people, but it is often described as a longing or emptiness. Some people have said that it is a feeling that there is something bigger than yourself in this world, while others compare it to a curiosity about the world.
Some people have had moments of clarity and heard the gods speak to them in moments of human connection, feeling that their relation to another person is somehow more than just a physical connection. Others have felt a sudden revelation amidst the glory of nature and felt the spirit of the gods pass through them.
Still others have felt no calling at all, but are curious to see if the kinship might be a community for them.
How to Begin
Do not mistake one thing for another
You will undoubtedly recognize certain names or concepts from works you are familiar with. The Norse gods are a popular mythology and have found their way into many contemporary stories. Understand that many of these stories are written with the intent to entertain and are not accurate representations. For example, it is common to see Othin (Odin) represented as a peaceful and kindly father who rules his kingdom with benevolence, or a complete and unabashed trickster who delights in chaos. Neither of these are wholly wrong about the All-father, but nor are they close to the truth.
In the same way, when you find aspects of other gods within the Gothheyrandic pantheon, be cautious not to attribute aspects from other religions onto those Goths. For example, there are many similarities between Baldr and Jesus, both in their nature and their stories; however, Baldr is not the great savior of mankind and does not remove sin and bring universal salvation. (There is no concept of original sin among the Gothheyrandi and thus no need for universal salvation)
Focus on your expressions of kinship
Do not assume to change the gods
It is more common than you might suspect to have someone who believes that a particular Goth is actually different from how the All-father represents them. In fact, there is a long theological tradition of finding sympathy for malicious deities, and fault in benevolent ones. Mankind is a complex creature with equal capacities for good and evil and we like to see that reflected in our gods.
While it is true that the gods are not hollow creatures who embody a single aspect, they are not as flexible as we are. A god has agency and personality, just as a human does, but for a god to change their nature would be as alien an idea as a human to change its biochemical nature. A god could no more go against their aspects than a human could suddenly do without oxygen. The nature of the gods is who they are, it is born in their existence and is one of the primary things that differs them from us. The all-father gave us the capacity for all aspects of expression, desire, and fulfillment; the gods do not share this nature.
Some of the more common misconceptions to be wary of are as follows:
Othin (Odin) - That he is a noble and peaceful god who will be benevolent in his dealings. Noble, yes, but the all-father is hardly benevolent. He is a war-god who embraces death and deception when it leads to victory. He loves all of mankind and not a particular person - do not count on him for benevolence unless he has given it by oath.
Loki - That he is a friend of mankind and largely misunderstood. This is a recent interpretation but has some link to the post-Christian movements that find ‘sympathy for the devil’. Loki has tricked many gods into making oaths with him, he abuses the laws of the gods the way a corrupt lawyer might. He may even be thought of as friendly with the gods at times. Do not mistake this for a good or benevolent nature. Loki hates mankind, he hates our flexibility and our freedom. He would see every last one of us bound to the fires of Mulspelheim or lost and alone on the fields of Niflheim.
Hel (Hell/Hela) - That hel is a terrible place of torment and its ruler is a cruel tyrant. Hel is a calm and endless place. Here tables are set with food of every kind, soft music plays in every antechamber, the grounds are quiet and furnished with plush hassocks. Hel loves those who inhabit her realm as her children, she provides for their every need. Hel has no love for those who are living and will gladly curse any who draw her attention.
Skathi & Lothur - That they are benevolent gods of the natural world. In truth they have no love for mankind, no love at all. They actively curse those who try to gain their favor or champion their aspects.
Those who start on the path of Gothheyrandism are often excited by various things. They bring many biases and thoughts about what it means to worship the oldest gods. There are a few things to be wary of when you begin your journey.
The bias of anti-theism. When you approach the practice of Gothheyrandism, you must ask yourself what attracts you to the oldest gods rather than the gods you grew up with or the gods of your parents. Many are resentful of some aspects of their heritage religion, they have difficulty accepting certain rules or theologies, or they have felt a spiritual oppression. Gothheyrandism can provide some relief from these feelings but cannot be defined by that relief. For example, it is not uncommon to find people who tire of the Christian strictures and concepts of sin; they come to Gothheyrandism because there is no idea of sin and redemption. However, it is often the case that they still hold the ideas of sin and redemption in their heart, and apply them based on their perception of what is sinful. Others are pleased to do away with the idea of redemption and assume that means there is a sort of spiritual anarchy found in Gothheyrandism. This is also more to do with anti-Christian sentiment than devotion to the ideals of the Gothheyrandism.
The bias of anti-morality. When you consider the practice of Gothheyrandism, you must deeply examine your commitment to keeping your word. When some learn that there are no moral commandments, they assume that any behavior is acceptable. This seems to be a reason why many born into Islam and Judaism turn to atheism: both religions can be strict in their adherence to holy laws. Some come to Gothheyrandism wrongly assuming that the lack of detailed moral or spiritual codes means that faith is accepting of any behavior. In a similar vein, there is a common phrase among pagan communities that summarizes this: “and it harms none, do what thou whilst.” Let this stand for those who follow these ways, but it is not the way of the Gothheyrandi. Moral codes shift and change with the place and time, there is little efficacy in the All-Father, or Forseti, detailing strict codes of holy conduct. That you should keep your oaths is enough, that you should be committed to your kith and kinship is evident, that you should be a good host to all who enter your halls is encompassing of all worthy behaviors. The idea that you might ‘do as you will’ leaves too much to emotion and situation - it is often good to do things you do not want when they benefit others.
The bias of self-empowerment. Gothheyrandism is, by it’s nature, an empowering faith. The danger comes when self actualization becomes the central core of those entering the faith. Gothheyrandism is about community, it is about kinship. Too much inward focus leads to a warping of these ideals. Often those focused inward will put an unhealthy emphasis with their relationships to the gods. They can become obsessed with this relationship and fall prey to other biases more easily. It has also happened that their oaths become less meaningful as they begin to make them constantly with themselves and then dissolve these oaths as needed. It is unhealthy for the believer and those they interact with. It is true, some who believe in the gods find themselves isolated from others of our faith, do not despair. We have the means now to find each other, you are reading those words through one such method. Never feel alone in your love for the gods, our kinship is strong despite any physical distance.
The bias of Nihilism. It is shocking how often the concept of uncaring gods enters the minds of those interested in the Norse pantheon. They are seeking some validation of their feeling that the universe is unfeeling and cold - thus their interpretation of the Norse gods are a truer representation of this. There also seems to be echoes of anti-Christian sentiment in this bias; that loving gods is a Christian principal and than Norse gods are the antithesis of this. This seems to be an affectation of those running from the world of their childhoods. The stars burn without caring about the light they give to humans, the sun without caring about the heat it gives, the rain falls without a care for the thirst it might quench. The world goes about its business without any consideration of you. That is one way to view the world, some call it more real, yet it is perhaps the most blind to actual existence. The whole of your reality is experienced through only your eyes, collectively through all our eyes. Just as the path of the photon changes with observation, so too does every element of the world have some influence through our realities. The world is not a cold and sterile place and it is not so for the gods. They have passions, and truly, not all of them care for mankind; but some do. Some care deeply for people and their influences on the natural world. Midgard is the greatest of Grimnir’s creations and has an important place in the realms - our place in it is no less vital. If you pray to the gods, they will hear you. If you ask for their consideration, they will listen. Of course they may ask from you in return, this is the nature of oath and kinship.